Wednesday, January 25, 2017

Wednesday Hodgepodge ~ Volume 294

Wednesday January 25, 2017


Hodgepodge Questions-Volume 294

Here are the questions to this week's Wednesday Hodgepodge. Here we go-



1. "The cure for anything is salt water-tears, sweat, or the sea." (Isak Dinesan) Would you agree? Of the three, which has 'cured' you most recently?
I do agree with everything but, not sure which has cures me most recently

2. What's something you can't eat without salt? Do you normally salt your food a lot, a little, or not at all? I don't use salt at all. I cook without salt, so people will have to add it. The only time I eat salt if I go some place to eat and it's added to the food already.

3. Sands of time, bury your head in the sand, built on sand, or draw a line in the sand...which sandy phrase could best be applied to something in your life right now? 
Draw a line in the sand

4. A favorite book, movie, or song with an island setting or theme?
"Cast Away" with Tom Hanks

5. Yesterday-did you run your day or did it run you? How so?
It ran me. I was sick all day

6. You're on an island holiday. Will I most likely find you parked in a beach chair, shopping in town, on the back of a jet ski, or snorkeling off the back of a catamaran?
Shopping in town

 7. What do you think we humans most take for granted?
I think we take for granted the people we love. Thinking they will be around for ever.

8. Insert your own random thought here.
I have thought about making a Bucket List. I finally started one.

Tuesday, January 24, 2017

5000 Questions Part 5 {401 ~ 500}

PART FIVE

401. Some say that high school is the best time of your life. Was that true for you?
I would say no, cause I was very shy in high school

402. What do you find yourself encouraging others to try?
To worry less ~~ Even though I don't

403. Which is better: Mel Brooks or Woody Allen?
Mel Brooks

404. When was the last time you were up all night?
Not sure, It's been awhile

405. Compromise__ is life. The rest is just details. Fill in the blank.

406. Are people too complex and different to be categorized?
No, they are more alike than what we think

407. Is it good to have pride in your own race or does that separate people from each other because it makes them think of everyone else as 'outsiders'?
Everyone has been created equal regardless of race, gender, class, etc. Once we understand that, life just becomes so much simpler.

408. What fictional story would you like to live through?
"The Room" by Saveserris

409. Are cats or dogs smarter?
Dogs, I know mine is smart

410. Have you ever guessed someone's password and broken into their diary?
I knew someones password and never gotten into it

411. What teacher, if any, has effected you the most in your life?
My math teacher, Mr. D

412. Are you more easily bored or excited?
Bored

413. What's the bravest or most daring thing you have ever done?
Stood up for something I believed in when noone was behind me

414. "What's the point of robbery when nothing is worth taking?" (- Adam Ant)
I have no clue

415. If your man or woman served you breakfast in bed as a treat what would you want?
Hubby serves me breakfast every once in awhile....French Toast, Saugage Patties, Hot Cholocate

416. What do you do only when you are upset?
Eat

417. What's the oddest CD in your collection?
Oh my, I think it's Conway Twitty

418. What's the best diary name you ever saw?
Secret Journal

419. What would your friends be surprised to learn about you?
I'll have to think on this......

420. Who owes you an apology?
My sister-in-law

421. Who deserves an apology from you?
I don't think I owe apology to anyone.

422. How would you like to treat your kids differently from the way your parents treated you?
I only have adult stepchildren....I wouldn't and don't treat them any different then my parents treated me

423. Which do you like best: 60's, 70's or 80's fashion?
80's

424. What is the worst pick up line ever used on you?
Nice tits. Do mind if I feel them

425. Of the following, which word best describes you: inventive, kinetic (energetic), light-hearted, mature
Light - hearted

426. Do you own a record player?
Yes, I do....I have one on my stereo and I have my first record player that I ever got and yes it still works

Do you use it?
Once in awhile I do play records

427. How easily do you make friends?
Real easy, if I first like you

428. What is the difference between having character and being a character?
When you "have character" it is part of who you already are
When your "being a character" you are tring to be something you are not

429. Are there any animals you flat out refuse to touch?
Snakes

430. Do you care about your weight?
Yes, Hoping to get back on track

431. Did you/will you go to the prom?
No, I was never into dances

432. Have you ever wanted to date twins?
No

433. What one thing would you change about high school if you could?
The only thing I would change is that I wouldn't be so shy....But if I did I probable wouldn't be the person I am today

434. If you came with a warning label, what would it say?
100% B_ _ _ _  in 0 seconds

435. Are you artistic and creative?
No

436. What were you (probably) doing on this date last year?
Started going through every thing and packing for our move here to PA

437. What are you obsessed with?
WWE Wrestler "The Undertaker" and Roman Reigns

438. What was the last compliment you received?
I'm beautiful from hubby

439. Do you have any brothers or sisters?
Yes, One half sister Linda 66 and Two brothers Jimmy 56 and Kenny 54

440. Who would you like to be alone with right now?
My Hubby

441. Do you push people away when you really want them to come closer?
I don't play games. I speak my mind, so when I push someone away I really want them to leave me alone

442. Is a prenuptial agreement necessary or does it take the romance and trust out of marriage?
I believe it takes the romance and trust out of marriage

443. Do you lie your way out of things?
Nope

444. Are you better at talking or listening?
Listening

445. What will only happen to you once in this lifetime?
Being married

446. Know of any conspiracy theories you think might be credible?
I don't waste my time pondering conspiracy theories. It requires too much energy to believe that everything is a hoax

447. What are the most beautiful words that have ever been spoken to you?
I Love You

448. If it were legal would you own a human slave (race unimportant)?
No I would a chauffeur. I wouldn't own a human being

449. Have you ever read your own writing at a poetry reading?
No

450. What is one simple thing that gives you the happy shivers?
I am blessed to have a wonderful husband and 3 stepchildren and 10 grandchidren in my life!

451. What do you do for exercise?
I had to start over again from what I was walking. I walk 3 miles a day.

452. Would you rather have a strict teacher with a sense of humor or a lenient teacher that doesn't teach?
I liked a lenient teacher that does teach, When I was in school I had both

453. If you ever have a baby what might you want to name it?
Girl: Randy Rae    Boy: Alfred Earl {After my Dad & JR's Dad}

454. If you won free tickets to a concert from a radio show and had to choose between Inxs, Poison, Blondie and Moby, which would you choose?
I would probable choose "Poison" cause hubby likes Poison

455. Are you a good cook?
I don't think so, But hubby eats everything I make

456. Do you prefer when things come with no assembly required, even if they are a bit more expensive?
Yes

457. Start a sentence with the words: what if
What if everyone in the world would learn to accept each other

458. Are you more spontaneous and unpredictable or loyal and routine?
Loyal and Routine

459. What is the highest number you can count to in your head?
Don't know,never tried to how far I could count to

460. How do you go about losing weight?
Weight Watchers and Walking

461. Do you have street smarts?
Not really

462. Do you have a lot of common sense?
I have some

463. What is your favorite flavor of ice cream?
Chocolate

464. What's your favorite movie that involves dancing?
Dirty Dancing

465. Would you ever want to become a guest on a talk show? If yes what would the show's theme be?
Not really, I don't like talk shows

466. Do you like the way you look naked?
No

467. Have you ever dissected an animal?
No, I was always absent in school on that day

468. Who do you know who is brilliant?
My hubby, He chose me

469. Who do you know who is dull?
Dana

470. Do you ever think about time travel?
Only if there was a time machine

471. What is one interesting fact you know?
I really don't know anything interesting facts about myself

472. Do you talk to yourself?
Sometimes and yes when I want the right answer I do answer myslf

Do you talk to your pets?
All the time

473. Do you believe that humankind has a future in space (will we live there some day)?
I don't think it will be possible to live in space.

474. Would you rather wear clothes that you don’t mind getting dirty or more delicate outfits?
It depends where i'm going or what i'm doing

475. How do you 'live life to the fullest'?
I don't bieve I live life to the fullest yet

476. Are you sloppy or a neat freak?
Somewhere in between

477. Would you rather have a trunk full of nickels or half a trunk full of dimes?
A truck full of dimes

478. What is the worst mistake you've ever made?
Not breaking up with my X sooner than I did

479. Are you in good health?
Let's see....I have High Blood Pressure, High Cholestrol, Diabetes, Memory Loss, Take Seizures, Had a Stroke....So what do you think?

480. Are you patriotic?
Yes

Let's play fact or crap.


Is it a fact? Or is it crap?


481. The greenhouse effect is bad for your health.
Crap

482. There are about as many molecules of air in one breath as there are hairs on your head.
Fact

483. The Miss America pageant started out as a contest in which people decorated wheel chairs and one chair was judged the prettiest.
Crap

484. To remove a tattoo a physician can place a small balloon under the skin, which is inflated so that the tattooed skin gradually stretches. Then they cut the stretched skin away.
Crap

485. Cock fighting is a sexual sport.
Crap

486. It is the warmest time of the day during the hour that the sun is the highest in the sky.
Fact

487. Certain scientists specialize in studying cow farts.
Crap

488. The brilliant colors (reds, oranges, yellows) across the sky that we get from sunsets are caused mainly by pollution.
Crap

489. In Grimm's original fairy tale, Rapunzel is pregnant.
Crap

490. Dracula was the first movie about a vampire.
Crap

491. The inventors of Corn Flakes, the Kellogg brothers, ran a school for delinquent youth.
Crap

492. "Kemo Sabe" means "soggy shrub" in Navajo.
Fact

493. Sir Thomas Crapper invented the toilet.
Fact

494. The Earl of Sandwich invented the Sandwich.
Fact

495. Some Chinese alchemists were trying to invent an immortality medicine and accidentally invented gunpowder instead.
Crap

496. The human body is made of about 99% water.
Crap

497. Bubble gum contains rubber.
Fact

498 This survey to the zero power = 0.
Fact

499. Most lipstick contains fish scales.
Fact

500. There are 86401 seconds in day.
Fact

Eastern Caribbean Cruise

January 24, 2017

For the past year or so my Hubby talked about wanting to go on a cruise..........................He loves to go on vacations but hates to spend the money or take off work.
So usually when he's at work I decide when and where we should go. It's usually always somewhere he had said he would like to go to or do.



I was bored while JR was at work Sunday. I was looking up cruises, just to see what different ones there was and prices.

Well, JR & I are going on first Cruise March 3,2018. To the Eastern Caribbean.
I'm not sure how I feel about flying to Miami, I have never been on a plane so that will be a first also.
Water, Just hope I don't get sea sick.

I am excited about it!
I'm already starting to make lists what we need to take and what needs bought by February 2018.

Monday, January 23, 2017

Monday, January 23, 2017

Back In Time Again!

Here are two old meme quizzes Toni T at My Time With Friends found on her flash drive and thought it would be fun to post them again. I always enjoy memes.

10 Best Games (5 board games, 5 card games)

Board Games
 
1} Tri-Omino's
 
2} Monopoly
 
3} Chinese Checkers
 
4} Scrabble
 
5} Parcheesi
 
 
Card Games
 
6} Gin Rummy
 
7} 500 Rummy
 
8} Spades
 
9} Uno
 
10} Phase 10
 
 
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Unexpected Windfall

1.  If you were to get a unexpected windfall, what is your first thought on what to do with the money? Were you practical or not?:   Definitely practical. Buy a house & piece of land

2.  You have $1000 to spend on yourself. What do you buy?:   A new Camera

3.  You have $1000 to spend on something for your home. What do you buy?: A new bedroom suit

5000 Questions Part 4 {301 ~ 400}

5000 Questions Part 4 {

301. List 5 things you have not experienced that you would like to experience before you die.

A~~Should I live to be old, I want to be able to look back and feel I have lived by the most worthwhile Byronic principle: never give up, even when it’s clear you cannot win.

B~~Become a better photographer

C~~Satisfaction. I would like to be a happy person. I try to be happy, but it seems that it is more of a struggle for me than for some. I am prone to being melancholy for reasons unknown to me. I remember being happy as a child, but somewhere along the way that changed. I don’t have sustained periods of being happy. Often, when I do feel happy I am struck by the thought “how long will this last,” or “I wonder what bad thing will happen as a result of being happy right now?” Dark thoughts perhaps, but they have been honed by years and years of experiencing what happens when the other shoe drops, so to speak.

D~~Make a list of things I feel I need to accomplish in my life before I die.

E~~Hit the lottery BIG time,Where hubby don't have to work

302. Will you try to accomplish any of these things within the next year?

Sure will

303. What do you feel controlled by?

My seizures and Blackout spells

304. If Jesus appeared to you and told you that the moon was made of green cheese would you believe him?

No because I know that wouldn’t happen and if it did it wouldn’t really be Jesus because he wouldn’t say something like that.

305. What is one thing you are sure of?

That my husband loves me as much as I love him

306. At what part of the day do you feel the most alert?

9 am or midnight

307. Have you ever played in a band?

No

308. Have you ever stared into the ocean thinking 'early creatures crawled outta that'?

Never been to the ocean so no

309. If not, what do you think of when you are staring into the ocean?

I'll let you know when and if I ever go to the ocean

310. Do you like the mental challenge of chess or other games?

Chess no way… I like jigsaw puzzles, word finds, scattergories, boogle

311. Do you ever think of where your atoms were before they were in you?

No

312. Do you ever think about where your atoms will go after they have been in you?

No

313. If you didn't know that people couldn't fly do you think that you could?

No

314. Are you someone that others call when they're having a problem and want to talk about it?

Yes, But I'm always here for the ones I love

315. When it comes to literature, do you see beyond the writing and into the meaning intended by the author?

Yes

316. Is there anything you can take apart completely, and then put back together, and have no left over parts?

Yes probably most things if I’m organized

317. What are your feelings about the death penalty?

If they deserve it, yes. Like child molester they need the death penalty

318. If there was a god and you could ask him/her one question what would it be?

I do believe there is a god....If I could ask him anything it a question you shouldn't ask. I would ask him "Why" did he take my mother when he did.

319. Do you believe that life will be found on other planets?

Yes

320. What is something worth suffering for?

My salvation

321. If you could put an extra eye on your body anywhere you wanted, where would you put it?

Back of my head

322. Are you in touch with the earth and nature?

A little

323. Would you rather live simply or extravagently?

Some where in between

324. Have you ever been camping?

Yes, many times....Hopefully we get to go this summer to Gettysburg, PA

325. Is your heart open when you meet someone new?

Most of the time

326. Are you able to have conversations with and become friends with people who are not like you and are interested in different things than you are?

Yes

327. Are strangers more beautiful or frightening to you?

Some are frightening

328. What stops you from doing everything you want to do?

Self doubt, fear

329. Can you think of three adjective that do not apply to you at all?

Confident, still, loud

330. How do you feel about Jeremy Jaynes, who got a nine year prison sentence for spamming people with junk email (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jeremy_Jaynes)?

I hate spam

331. Do you know who the current premier of China is?

Nope

332. Are you very active?

I was before stopping to pack and moving from Ohio to PA ~ Was walking 5 to 10 miles a day and a hour a wii fit ~~Hoping to get back into exercising.

333. Is there a city that reminds you of the landscape of your brain?

Brisbane… partly organized, partly chaotic

334. Have you ever loved someone who has loved you back?

Yes ~~ My Husband

335. Is it really being 'in love with' someone if the other person doesn't love you?

Yes

336. Do you believe that there is someone perfect for everyone or that people just fall in love with who ever they are with at the time?

I believe in soul mates {which I found mine}but I also believe that you can love someone else

337. Do you know secret things?

Yes

338. Have you ever fallen in love with someone you shouldn't have?

Yes

339. How do you overcome your fears?

Grab my husbands hand

340. What can you do better than anyone you know?

I don't know

341. Would you benefit from a wilder existence?

No

342. Does it seem to you like the range of socially acceptable behavior is getting smaller or larger?

Larger unfortunately

343. Have you ever fired a gun?

No

344. Are people becoming more afraid of each other?

Yes

345. If you had to choose the percentage of freedom vs. safety what ratio would you decide on (ex: 100% free 0% safe)?

50 / 50

346. Does safety stifle you?

Sometimes

347. Who or what needs to be stopped?

Racism and Killing

348. Are human beings becoming more domesticated?

Yes

349. Do you follow the lives of the British Royal Family?

Nope

350. How did the death of Pope John Paul II (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pope_John_Paul_II) affect you?

It didn't affect me in any way

351. Have you ever lost something and never found it?

Yes, a few things...Off hand I can think of two different Christmas card address books one back in 2003 and the other 2011

352. Do you listen to any talk radio shows?

No ~~ I don't like talk shows

353. Who do you trust more, your friends or your parents?

My Parents ~~ But since they are not here I trust some friends more than others

354. Would you ever date someone outside of your race or religion?

No… I’m married... but if I wasn’t married I would not date someone out of my race...It's fine for some just not for me...and no I'm not racism...but I would date someone of a different religion

355. Which of the 7 deadly sins in the worst (gluttony, greed, pride, lust, envy, wrath, sloth)?

All sins are equal but the one I hate the most is wrath

356. Which one are you most guilty of?

Envy

357. Are you afraid to be alone with yourself?

No ~~ I spend a lot of time alone while my husband is working

Do you try to avoid thinking?

Yea !! But I don't do to good of a job at it

358. Would you venture to tell someone you loved him or her if they didn't say it first?

Years ago I would have said no ~~ But I said it first to my husband back in 2003 after a few months of starting to date

359. What are you the most sensitive about?

My Husband  ~~ Stepdaughter Dotti and Stepson Chad ~~ Grand children

360. What can you talk about for hours?

Anything you want

361. Do you talk about yourself, other people, or ideas the most?

Depends who I am talking to ~~ Mostly ideas

362. Do you believe that spell casting can work?

Boy I wish it did

363. Are you a fan of The Legend of Zelda games?

No

364. What old movie would you go see if it were re-released in the movie theaters?

I don't know

365. Is there a celebrity that you would be too stars truck to talk to if you met them?

Probable WWE "The Undertaker" or WWE Roman Reigns

366. Have you ever left a mean unsigned note?

No

367. Do you think it's cheesy to paste things you didn't write into your diary?

Yes

368. What are three things that you try not to think about?

1.Death
2.Pain
3.??

369. Is casual sex acceptable for you?

No

370. What form of sexual protection do you use?

None ~~ I only sleep with my husband

371. What is expected of you that you feel is unnatural or not right?

Nothing

372. Do you sometimes place your own expectations on other people?

No

373. Do you sometimes act overeager to make friends when you are around strangers?

No

374. Do you take everything that is said literally?

Yes I do

375. Do you take most things others say seriously?

Sure do

376. Do you have a quick wit?

Sometimes

377. Do you believe in the need for political correctness?

I don't get into politics

378. Do you have strong opinions and beliefs?

On some things

379. If yes, can you still hang out with and be friends with people who disagree with you?

Yup

380. Are you uptight?

Sometimes

381. Do you sometimes do risky things?

Sometimes

382. Could just about anyone hold your interest in a conversation for at least ten minutes?

There is two people I can think of right now that can't hold my interest even for a second

383. Are you self-conscious?

Yes

384. What would be your ideal destination for a Saturday afternoon?

At home with my husband

385. Does anyone have a video tape of you doing something embarrassing?

No

386. What is Kevin Smith’s(http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kevin_Smith) best movie?

I'm not into comedies but I guess "Silent Bob"

387. Where do you like to go on Friday or Saturday nights?

Spend the evening at home with my hubby JR

388. Do you like your friends to act the same way all the time or do you accept their moods and changes?

I accept they mood and changes...What are friends for...They accept mine!

389. Do you often feel like other people are judging you?

Yes, A lot of times

390. What do you think other people judge you to be like?

Bad

391. Are you quick to judge others?

Sometimes

392. When you have a fight with someone do you want to talk about it right away or calm down first and then talk?

Calm down first and then talk

393. Some say love is a river (according to the old song). What do you say love is?

An Addiction

394. What is the worst fault a person can have?

Racism

395. Do you have it?

No

396. Which do you think has more impact on a person’s character, genetics or environment?

Environment

397. Who was your first best friend?

Corinna {though we aren't friends any more} and Diane {going on 48 years May 2017}

398. If you are not best friends anymore, what came between you?

Diane and I are still friends May will be 48 years...
Corinna got mad at me cause my boyfriend Dale at the time brother Mark didn't give her the time of day and she broke me and Dale up, She started going with Dale she thought it would get Mark to like her but never did.

399. Who have you read a biography about?

"The Undertake"

400. What would your own autobiography be called?

Untangling the knot that is my head

Sunday, January 22, 2017

Sunday Stealing: The Icebreaker Questions

January 21, 2017


Welcome back to Sunday Stealing


 

1. Are you loud, outgoing or shy?
I have been shy all my life

2. What’s coming up where you’ll see an old friend?
A lunch next week with some classmates
 
3. Are you easy to get along with?Yes, At least I think so


4. Have you ever given up on someone, but then gone back to t
No

5. Who was the last person that you had a deep conversation with?
My Husband

6. Are you okay with being in a big crowd?
It depends who all is in the crowd

7. Do you believe in luck and/or miracles?
I believe in both

8. What good thing happened during the summer? (It’s good to think about summer when you are freezing your butt off in January.)
My Husband & I moved back to PA from Ohio.

9. Do you think there is life on other planets?
Yes

10. Who was your first crush on?
The only really crush I had was on John C

11. What are your bad habits?
My Mouth ~ I speak before I think

12. What’s your favorite part of your daily routine?
Straightening up done & laundry done first thing in the morning
 
13. Other than your significant other, who are you most comfortable with?
My family
 
14. Has an ex ever told you that they regret breaking up?
Started to but I didn't want to hear it

15. Why should your celebrity crush drop everything to be with you?
Because after my husband passes away {Not for a long time yet} WWE The Undertaker is going to be my next husband, He just doesn't know it yet. HAHA

16. What would be the hardest to give up and why? Books. TV. Music.
TV, I couldn't miss my wrestling

17. Do you believe in second chances?
Yes
 
18. What would like to do next in your life?
A Witch

19. What’s the meanest thing that anyone has ever said to you?
Your Mother is better off dead

20. What’s the nicest thing that anyone has ever said to you?
You did a great job taking care of your Dad

Saturday, January 21, 2017

Saturday: 9 ~ A Summer Place

A Summer Place
Welcome to Saturday: 9. What we've committed to our readers is that we will post 9 questions every Saturday. Sometimes the post will have a theme, and at other times the questions will be totally unrelated. Those weeks we do "random questions," so-to-speak. We encourage you to visit other participants posts and leave a comment. Because we don't have any rules, it is your choice. We hate rules. We love memes, however, and here is today's meme!

Saturday 9: A Summer Place (1960)
 
Unfamiliar with this week's tune? Hear it here.

1) This song highlights the soundtrack from the movie A Summer Place, which is about two teenage lovers named Molly and Johnny. Did you ever have a youthful summer romance? If so, what was his/her name?
No...

 2) The "summer place" of the song/movie is a resort along the Maine coast. What "summer place" are you day dreaming about this winter morning?
Alaska..........


3) In the movie, Johnny was played by Troy Donahue, who is remembered as nice looking but not terribly talented. Can you think of one of today's actors who you could describe as "nice looking but not terribly talented?"
I'm not sure

4) Molly is played by Sandra Dee, a perky blonde who was one of 1960's bankable movie stars. Two other blondes -- Doris Day and Debbie Reynolds -- joined Sandra Dee in the Top 10. The only brunette to sell a lot of movie tickets that year was Elizabeth Taylor. Do you believe men find blondes more attractive than brunettes or redheads?
I don't know. I do know my husband don't like blonds


5) "A Summer Place" was by far the best-selling record of 1960. Also in 1960, two brothers in Ypsilanti, Michigan, opened a pizza place called Dominck's. That was the beginning of a chain now known as Domino's. What's the last food you had delivered to your front door?
Pepperoni & Saugage Pizza and Cheesey Bread Sticks last weekend from Domino's

6) In 1965, one of the brothers sold his share of the business to his brother for cash so he could buy a VW Beetle. Tell us about a time you had buyer's remorse.
I guess it would be a futon bed, Just takes up so much room in a small bedroom
 
7) In 1960, novelist Ernest Hemingway returned to the United States from Spain and settled in Ketchum, Idaho. Tell us about the last book you read. Was it a novel or non-fiction?
I just started reading novels again...I'm reading "Flowers In The Attic", once again

8) In December, 1960, John F. Kennedy, Jr. was baptized in the Georgetown University Chapel. His godparents were Charles and Martha Bartlett, the couple who originally introduced young John's famous parents. Do you have godparents?
No, I don't
  
9) Random question: You're at dinner with a married couple who begins to fight. Would you intercede and try to make peace? Or would you just sit back stay out of it?
Sit back and stay out of it.